Couple deceived by woman pretending to be pregnant will 'never forgive her'

Couple deceived by woman pretending to be pregnant will 'never forgive her'

Credit: Pitt County Sheriff's Office

When Mark and Tracy Dziekanski posted a Craigslist ad looking to adopt, a woman offered to let them adopt her baby.

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by Denise Martinez-Ramundo and Alexa Valiente

ABC News

Posted on April 10, 2014 at 1:56 PM

Updated Saturday, Apr 12 at 4:56 AM

 An Illinois husband and wife deceived by a woman pretending to be pregnant after they posted a Craigslist ad hoping to adopt told ABC News’ “20/20” exclusively that they will never forgive her.

“How could you do this to a couple that just wanted a baby?” asked the wife, Tracy Dziekanski. "How could you be so cruel and mean and deceitful to do this to somebody?”

Unable to have a baby of their own and knowing traditional adoption methods can be lengthy and expensive, Mark and Tracy Dziekanski posted an ad on Craigslist on Jan. 26, 2013 looking to adopt a baby.

A month later, the Dziekanskis received an email from Heather Taylor, who lived in Pitt County, N.C.

“Ms. Taylor told them that she was expecting a baby and was looking for a nice couple to take [care] of the baby for her 'cause she knew she couldn't afford it financially,” Pitt County Sheriff’s Office Detective David Flynn, who worked on the case, told “20/20.”

“She basically said, ‘You're the couple that I've been looking for,’” said Mark Dziekanski. "She knew that she couldn't take care of this baby because she already had her other daughter, Lilian, and it was hard to take care of her."

Eager to finally have a baby, Mark and Tracy Dziekanski said they were willing to give Taylor everything she needed for the pregnancy, including money.

"We didn't hesitate," Tracy Dziekanski said. "You want to keep her healthy. She's carrying our hope ... so we're gonna give her anything she needs."

“I said, ‘As long as it's for the baby, I don't have a problem with it,’” Mark Dziekanski said.

Over the course of the pregnancy, Taylor would update Mark and Tracy Dziekanski on her weight gain and how big the baby was.

But Mark and Tracy Dziekanski never met Taylor in person.

“We were going to get together. We were planning on meeting her and getting to know her and, I mean, we were going to go through the whole 10 yards,” Mark Dziekanski said. “And it just never happened.”

“We just wanted [to have a baby] so bad,” Tracy Dziekanski said. “And when you want kids, and you can't have kids, and you want more than anything to have a family, you just go with it. ... I'm not doing anything to screw up this chance, you know, to ... have a baby, especially a newborn.”

After weeks of preparing for the birth of the baby, Mark and Tracy Dziekanski received a call from Taylor saying she was in labor.

“She's having a C-section, and I'm ... on the phone with her in the delivery room,” Tracy Dziekanski said. “You could hear like ... the heart rate and everything, like she was really at a hospital. ... Then a couple of minutes later, there's a baby crying.”

Taylor told the couple she gave birth to a daughter, and the Dziekanskis decided to name her Anna Rosemarie. After seeing photos Taylor sent of the baby girl for the first time, Tracy Dziekanski said, “It's just, my God, this is real. This is really going happen.”

Yet, when the time came to bring Anna home, Mark and Tracy Dziekanski said they noticed red flags.

“I think the first one was when she said she was bringing us the baby,” Tracy Dziekanski recalled, "said she was on her way here, and she made it to Indianapolis. And her brother was in a car accident so she had to go back home."

 Also, the photos Taylor sent them of their daughter didn't seem to be of the same baby, Mark and Tracy Dziekanski said.

At one point, the couple said Taylor told them she made it to Illinois and was staying at a hotel near them.

“We couldn't get a hold of her. Finally, she called back. She said she was sorry about all of this, and that she's changed her mind,” Mark Dziekanski said. "Her mom was going to help out in ways that she would be able to afford to keep our Anna.”

“I'm like, 'Come on. This is getting absolutely ridiculous, this whole story,'” Tracy Dziekanski said.

The Dziekanskis decided to contact people with Craigslist ads looking to adopt children and ask them if they dealt with anyone named Heather Taylor. One woman in North Carolina responded.

The woman, named Nicole, told Tracy Dziekanski a familiar story. Taylor told Nicole that she was pregnant with a baby, one she agreed to give to Nicole.

“Heather went to extreme efforts to convince ... both couples that she was pregnant,” Detective Flynn said. “From my understanding, and speaking with Heather Taylor's family, she's had a long history of making up stories about other things.”

Even after learning that Taylor lied to them, Mark and Tracy Dziekanski said they told Taylor they would not involve the police if she paid them back, but she never did.

Taylor declined a request for an interview, but told "20/20" on the phone that she did it for attention and to feel wanted.

“She did not get a ton of money. I think grand total from both cases she got less than $2,000,” Detective Flynn said. “My only guess is that she enjoyed the attention.”

Taylor was sentenced to between 6 and 17 months in jail. Her sentence was reduced to 36 months supervised probation, and she had to seek mental treatment.

Mark and Tracy Dziekanski now have a fostering license and hope to adopt children through the fostering process.

“It is hard [seeing children], 'cause our little one would be a year old and we'd be taking her to the park, maybe not now but maybe further in the summer, chasing her around like crazy,” Tracy Dziekanski said. “We have so much love to give any baby, any child that there's no way that ... it's not going happen.”

“I’ll never forgive her,” Mark Dziekanski said.

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